Col. 3:12-13 (ESV) Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, 13 bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.
I’ve asked myself about the words humility and meekness: “What exactly do they mean? Are we to be shy as Christians? Does it mean we should crawl under our desks or be taken advantage of? Is that what it means to be humble or meek?” Those descriptions of the words don’t seem to match with the heroes of the Bible. Even when God did use shy people like Gideon, He gave him strength to fulfill his call.
In looking at the words in the above passage, I’ve found they do not mean what I thought. They mean something much more. For one thing, a humble person is someone who puts the needs of others above himself. James defines it well for us:
James 4:10-12 (ESV) Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you. 11 Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. 12 There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor?
Look at the qualifications for an elder of the church: 1 Tim. 3:1-7 (ESV) The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. 2 Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3 not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. 4 He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, 5 for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church? 6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. 7 Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.
As an example to the church and community at large, elders are to be humble and have all the traits listed above, and yet it is humble to seek the office itself. Elders are to stand against false teachers, to discipline those in the church who are causing disruption, in short, to hold people accountable. These men aren’t shy. They are men who must do these things while loving God’s people, acting in love and in humility. Humility, then, is to know your status as a Christian and as a member of the church and fulfill that – no more and no less.
I think misunderstanding this causes problems in the church. We concentrate so much on “humbling” ourselves we do nothing. We see ourselves as unworthy to be used by God, so those jobs God wants us to do don’t get done.
Humility, then, is not to think better or less of yourself than you actually are. Do not take positions you do not deserve or shrink from positions to which you are called. We must seek a balanced life as a child of God.
Meekness, much like humility, is power under control. Moses was the meekest man in the Old Testament:
Num. 12:3 (ESV) Now the man Moses was very meek, more than all people who were on the face of the earth.
The meaning of the Hebrew word for meek here is this: “An adjective meaning poor, oppressed, afflicted, humble. It is used of persons who put themselves after others in importance; persons who are not proud, haughty, supercilious, self-assertive, low in rank or position. Moses in the Old Testament is the prototype of the humble man before God and other human beings (Num. 12:3), but he was not poor or low in rank.” (The Complete Word Study Dictionary: Old Testament)
Moses stood before Pharaoh, the most powerful man in Egypt, and delivered God’s commands. Moses knew who he was and who God saw him to be. He knew his mission and that God had his back.
Why is this important?
I think we spend too much time trying to be unimportant in God’s kingdom. We have a difficult balance to keep, and most of us don’t keep it well. We stray toward the “I’ll do nothing” side for fear others may expect too much of us or see us as prideful. We’re safe there, just sitting in the pew and resisting our call to serve.
When we look at Biblical examples such as David, Paul, Deborah, Stephen, we see those who stood for something, who were willing and happy to serve God once the call was recognized. These people weren’t always humble. Moses was punished for becoming prideful. But, humble people get things done in God’s kingdom. Those who ignore the call on their lives and abilities do not.
Jeremiah 9:23-24 (ESV) Thus says the Lord: “Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, 24 but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the Lord who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the Lord.”
The first verse in this passage, verse 23, could be understood this way: “Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom [for God has given him that wisdom], Let not the mighty man boast in his might [For it is God who has made him mighty], let not the rich man boast in his riches [for it is God who has given him his riches].
Wise men, mighty men, and rich men all have places in God’s kingdom to do particular jobs. God has made the wise men to counsel people, the mighty men to protect the flock, and the rich men to provide for His people. We each have a job in God’s church, a job God has uniquely qualified us to do.
Let me look at some of the tools I have around my house and use them as metaphors to illustrate this. Let’s look at the straight-slot screwdriver. It has one specific use for which it was designed: to turn straight-slot screws, but we can use this tool for so many things: as a pry bar, to open paint cans, as a sort of chisel, many things. But, it’s only designed for one purpose, and it only does that one purpose well.
We have screwdrivers in our church as well as pry bars, paint can openers (yes there are tools designed just for that purpose), and chisels. A screwdriver can do the job of a chisel poorly, but it can get done. Using the tool that is actually designed to open paint cans, pry things, and so on, makes the job much easier and creates a better result. The problem is many times only the screwdriver will volunteer for a job, so the task gets done but not as well as if some tool actually designed to accomplish the task were used.
I’m a teacher. We might look at me as a partly full computer thumb drive. I have a lot of information to share if you can access it. The other day, the fan belt on my truck started to squeal. That almost always means the belt is stretched and needs to be tightened a little. I didn’t run into my study and grab the thumb drive to fix that. I grabbed my 14mm wrench to loosen the pulley and adjust it.
There is a parallel here to the church. Some of us are more sensitive to the needs of others than we. Some are better able to teach. Some are better cooks. Some spend hours in their prayer closets supporting those on mission fields. We all have our jobs, and God has designed us to perform those jobs.
Sometimes the more obvious servants: ushers, pastors, teachers, helpers, cooks, etc., are seen as more “spiritual” because they are serving out in the open. We don’t often see the gifts given to missions or the poor. We don’t see the hospital visits, the hands held when a loved one is lost, the prayers that uplift the entire church.
Charles Spurgeon was asked after a Sunday service why he thought his ministry was so successful. He took the person downstairs to his church’s basement and showed him the dozens of people who prayed throughout the service for God’s hand to work in the lives of those listening and through the words of Spurgeon.
Why is this important?
You and I often may feel like we aren’t doing all we can. If we feel that way, we should be careful in what we choose to do. We can take on the job to test and see if it is what God has called us to do, but if it becomes clear it is not, we are probably standing in the way of someone God has perfectly prepared for that job. We are a screwdriver trying to open a paint can when God wants to use the paint can opener.
Whatever tool God had fashioned you into, you are perfect for the job. You might “hang on the wall” for a while like a wrench in my garage, but when the task arises, you are the perfect tool to get it done. While there are tools in the church that are not being used properly, there is no tool more important than another, so find your place if you haven’t already and get to work.
1 Tim. 2:12-15 (ESV) I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve; 14 and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. 15 Yet she will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith and love and holiness, with self-control.
Over the past several decades we’ve seen a growing controversy over whether women should be pastors or even teach men. The above passage seems to tell us they can’t, but are there conditions on this?
For a few years, we attended a church where the pastor’s wife would teach women’s groups and was a wonderful teacher, but if a man entered the room while she was teaching, she would politely stop until he left. I’m thinking that might be a little extreme, but it was how she felt, and most conservative Christians prefer to err on the conservative side rather than not. Some, though, will take this to the extreme. I belonged to a church which would not allow women ushers.
Missionaries are usually asked to speak to at the churches who support them financially on the mission field when they come home on furlough. I was a driver for a woman missionary who did this. We arrived at a very conservative church, and since the pastor had not yet arrived when she was supposed to speak, she began her report from the pulpit to those in attendance. Now I’m a pretty conservative guy, but I saw no problem with this. She was simply telling of her adventures on the mission field, but the pastor told me afterward he would not have allowed her in the pulpit had he arrived before her talk. I think that’s taking it a bit far.
Another passage that seems to apply is just after the one above where Paul gives Timothy a list of qualifications for elder/overseer:
1 Tim. 3:1-7 (ESV) The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. 2 Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3 not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. 4 He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, 5 for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church? 6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. 7 Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.
There is no mention of women as elders here or anywhere else in Scripture. The entire passage is masculine and even refers to “the husband of one wife” as a qualification. So, it is generally accepted by conservative Bible churches that women cannot be elders. Since pastors are elders, it follows women cannot be pastors either.
“But then what is the role of women in the church?” you might ask. Well, right after this passage comes Paul’s qualifications for deacon:
1 Tim. 3:8-13 (ESV) Deacons likewise must be dignified, not double-tongued, not addicted to much wine, not greedy for dishonest gain. 9 They must hold the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience. 10 And let them also be tested first; then let them serve as deacons if they prove themselves blameless. 11 Their wives likewise must be dignified, not slanderers, but sober-minded, faithful in all things. 12 Let deacons each be the husband of one wife, managing their children and their own households well. 13 For those who serve well as deacons gain a good standing for themselves and also great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.
The interesting thing here is that verse 11 mentions wives. The Greek word for wives here is the same as the word for women. The verse could read “The women, likewise must be dignified . . . .” and many scholars believe it does mean women. In fact, the NASB translates the verse this way. The “husband of one wife” qualification here, of course, would apply to men deacons.
Another passage which points to women deacons is found in Romans 16:1 (ESV) I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a servant of the church in Cenchrea.
The word for servant here (diakonos) describing our sister Phoebe is also the Greek word for deacon. So, many churches are recognizing this and are fine with women entering the ranks of deacons in their body.
Why is this important?
I believe Scripture says women can hold any leadership office except pastor/elder. I’ve heard many women who are excellent teachers, but I just can’t go against what I believe is clearly taught in the Bible and shouldn’t do so. My stand has always been that 1 Tim. 2 is speaking of doctrinal teaching, typical Sunday morning teaching.
Women are clearly encouraged to teach each other and children. There is no limitation there. This is simply a role issue for men and women. God has assigned functions in the body of Christ for each of us and limits us or promotes us as He wills.
Sometimes it’s the little thing that mean a lot, especially in Bible study. I usually find something that catches my eye usually means God wants me to look into it more deeply. Let’s look at Mark 10:32-34, for instance:
And they were on the road, going up to Jerusalem, and Jesus was walking ahead of them. And they were amazed, and those who followed were afraid. And taking the twelve again, he began to tell them what was to happen to him, 33 saying, “See, we are going up to Jerusalem, and the Son of Man will be delivered over to the chief priests and the scribes, and they will condemn him to death and deliver him over to the Gentiles. 34 And they will mock him and spit on him, and flog him and kill him. And after three days he will rise.”
This is near Passion Week. The disciples were afraid of what was about to happen, and Jesus described exactly what they feared in detail. The point I had missed all the other times I read this passage is that Jesus was walking ahead of the disciples. He was anxious to reach Jerusalem and suffer for us as He described. Hebrews tells us why:
Heb. 12:2 (ESV) looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.
What a blessing to see this! You and I are the joy set before Jesus that He treasured enough to rush ahead of the disciples to pay that price.
Just this past couple of weeks, I’ve been reading about Noah and Abraham, and I noticed a term that is grammatically incorrect: “between you and me.” When I was in English class, I was told if you don’t know how to write a particular sentence or how to punctuate it, look in a Bible. They take special efforts to keep their English correct. Yet, it is incorrect in Genesis 9:12, as an example, and it’s God who said it:
Genesis 9:12 (ESV) And God said, “This is the sign of the covenant that I make between me and you and every living creature that is with you, for all future generations:
One interesting thing is this isn’t the only time the phrase appears in Scripture. It shows up 13 times and only in the Old Testament (in the ESV). It also appears this way in the NASB, the KJV, the NIV and others. So, it isn’t an issue to a particular translation. What do we do with something like that? We can look to see if these passages have anything in common:
The first two mentions are God speaking to Noah about His covenant never to destroy the earth through a flood again (Gen. 9:12, 15).
The next four mentions are God speaking to Abraham about His covenant to create a great nation through him (Gen. 17:2, 7, 10, 11).
The next mention is in Exodus 31:13 where God talking with Moses saying the Sabbaths will be a sign between God and His people.
In 1 Samuel 20:42, it is Jonathan speaking to David about their covenant with the Lord between them both.
The next two places, 1 Samuel 24: 12 & 15, are calls for God to judge between David and Saul that David wouldn’t kill him.
The next two speak of a covenant between King Asa and the king of Assyria (1 Kings 15:19 and 2 Chronicles 16:3).
The last is God speaking again to His people telling them to keep His Sabbaths as a sign between Him and His people. (Ezekiel 20:20)
So, from this I can see the difference in grammar from the norm appears only during some sort of agreement, most often by God to His people, but also among kings and the child of a king. So, maybe this is a sign of position or royalty. More study is required.
I did look into a couple of commentaries, but no mention of the odd grammar. I’ve just started looking into this, and I’ll keep looking and mention it here if it leads to something profound. Maybe I’ll write a Hebrew scholar or the ESV translation committee.
Why is this important?
This is important because too often I find myself reading a passage and not really seeing the oddity it might contain. Sometimes researching these sorts of passages brings very little. Sometimes it brings great rewards. We never know when we begin, and even sometimes something simple connects later on with another point to bless us. Bible study is like mining for gold. Sometimes you find a nugget. Sometimes you strike a vein and follow it to great wealth. Then again, sometimes you find very little.
I thought it would be good to look at the process midstream and see ways we can research the things God brings to our notice. While my research is still in progress and may amount to nothing more than just a figure of speech like the royal “we,” it may well lead me to something more.
So, let’s keep our eyes open for these sorts of things. God speaks to us through His Word. I, for one, need to spend more time listening and not just hurrying through passages. Maybe you have the same problem.
These three words have intrigued me over the years. “After what things?” I would ask. Well, it’s after all the things in Abraham’s life in the eleven chapters preceding 22:1. In these chapters, I found Abram/Abraham had done some laudable things and sinful things. But God was still working in his life to make him into the man He wanted to accomplish His plan.
In thinking about of this, I thought of an exercise I did a couple of years ago: I looked at all the things God did to bring me to where I am in Him today. Here is some of it:
In 1946, my father contracted Scarlet Fever. Before he was released from the hospital, he was told he couldn’t work for two years. He refused telling the doctor he needed to provide for his family.
The doctor had a country home he used as a weekend retreat and kindly suggested our family move in and raise some livestock to provide food and some money. My father accepted Doctor Parker’s offer, and my father fell in love with this area known as Crow Canyon.
After the two years were up, my father got a job and we all moved into town, but he always dreamed of returning to Crow Canyon. The summer between my 7th and 8th grade years, we moved into a house there.
My father was a violent man who abused my brother, sister, and I. When you’re supposed to learn love and trust and the one who is supposed to love you and whom you are supposed to trust is the one hurting you, you don’t learn these things, so I grew up with neither. He died when I was 15.
In my senior year of high school, my best friend, Tom, was the photographer for the high school yearbook. I accompanied him on many of his shoots, and he showed me how to process black and white film and prints. This seemed like an easy gig to me.
At this time, the young woman, Pam, who would eventually become my wife was several hundred miles away and about to graduate 8th grade.
Just a few weeks after high school graduation, I got in a motorcycle accident. I broke my right leg and wrist. The surgeon put a metal rod in my femur and wrote my draft board telling them I was 1H – handicapped. A year later, the surgeon took out the rod and wrote my draft board I was fit for duty. Now Pam was a freshman in high school.
Later that year, I got my draft physical notice. After the physical, it was obvious, as they say, “If you could see lightning and hear thunder and make it through the door, you were going into the Army.” I left the physical and drove directly to the Navy recruiter to sign up for reserves. Pam had started her sophomore year in high school by now.
The Navy reserve plan I signed up for had a one year reserve stint before two years of active duty. By the time I entered active duty, Pam was half way through her junior year.
The Navy recruiter gave me a dream sheet – don’t know the actual name for it. On this you tell the Navy what sort of ship you would like to be on, where you might like to be stationed, the sort of job you would like, etc. I asked for photography. They were short of photographers, so I got it. Since I had signed up at a Naval Air Station in Alameda, I was assigned to an aviation recognizance squadron of which there are only two. One was located on the east coast, and one on the west, at Miramar Naval Air Station. I was stationed at Miramar.
The following Memorial Day weekend, a friend asked if we could see some of his family in LA. I had a car. He offered home cooking, so I agreed. When we got out of the car at his cousins’ – while I didn’t realize it at the time – Jesus put His arm around my shoulder and said “I have a daughter inside I need you to meet named Pam. She will teach you to love and trust, so you will be able to love and trust Me.” Pam was in that house. You see, God had stalled me for two years through my motorcycle accident and my first year of reserves while Pam got old enough to date when we met. We dated until my active duty was up and married three months later.
At the time, I thought I was a Christian. We went to church, I read my Bible, I even prayed, but I had no relationship with Christ. Five years after we were married, a Jehovah’s Witness, Jerry, was hired at work and asked who the Christians were. I raised my hand, and we debated fairly often at work. When Jerry and I got onto salvation, I saw it meant one needed to give control of his life to Christ. I thought “That’s great. I need to share this with Jerry,” but God said I needed to take advantage of that myself. I refused! You see, I had someone in charge of my life for the first 15 years, and it wasn’t pretty. I certainly didn’t want to do that again, but God kept after me. For six months, He daily kept after me.
One night, I was lying in bed and felt a very strong evil presence at the foot of our bed. Pam had already fallen asleep. I was terrified. I knew this was a spiritual thing since I could see no one there, so I began to read my Bible hoping it would go away. I read the entire book of Daniel before it finally left. God was telling me in no uncertain terms I had a choice: either eternity with Him or eternity with this evil thing. The next night I went down to church and raised my hand to receive Jesus.
Why is this important?
My father’s Scarlet Fever got us to Crow Canyon. Crow Canyon introduced me to Tom and photography. Photography brought me to NAS Miramar. Miramar brought me to Pam, and Pam brought me to Jesus. God works in mysterious ways, eh?
Genesis 22 continues with the story of a father’s love for his son yet willing to sacrifice his son if God asked. For thousands of years, God has pointed to him to show us in a minor way what it was like for Him to sacrifice His Son for us. This ordinary man from Ur who sinned but strove to do God’s will has been set up as an example to others. God has prepared us just as He prepared Abraham, and like Abraham, we all have our jobs to do. Abraham’s is over. Now it’s our turn.
Gen. 22:9-12 (ESV) When they came to the place of which God had told him, Abraham built the altar there and laid the wood in order and bound Isaac his son and laid him on the altar, on top of the wood. 10 Then Abraham reached out his hand and took the knife to slaughter his son. 11 But the angel of the Lord called to him from heaven and said, “Abraham, Abraham!” And he said, “Here I am.” 12 He said, “Do not lay your hand on the boy or do anything to him, for now I know that you fear God, seeing you have not withheld your son, your only son, from me.”
Luke 7:2-3 (ESV) Now a centurion had a servant who was sick and at the point of death, who was highly valued by him. 3 When the centurion heard about Jesus, he sent to him elders of the Jews, asking him to come and heal his servant.
According to Webster, one definition of secondhand is to receive something indirectly. When we read a newspaper or watch TV news, we’re receiving the news indirectly and is, therefore, secondhand.
When we share Christ with others, it too can produce a secondhand effect. I was talking with a woman who had accepted Christ but was swept into the Watchtower organization of Jehovah’s Witnesses. She was about to be baptized, and her husband asked me to speak to her. During the time I spent explaining and defending the gospel, she came back to Christ. The secondhand effect was, unbeknownst to me at the time, her husband also came to Christ through listening to what I had shared with her.
If we are active and open Christians, I think this effect, the secondhand effect, may occur more often than we might think. This may well have been the reason Nicodemus came to Christ: he had heard someone talking about Him and was intrigued enough to seek Him out.
Nowadays even simple acts of courtesy may be enough to catch someone’s attention as a Christian act. A simple “God bless” or “How can I pray for you?” which is overheard by others could as well. Even saying grace at a restaurant may well not only give boldness to other Christians to do the same but is a secondhand witness to those around us.
I spend a lot of time on social media defending the faith and trying to encourage fellow Christians. Secondhand witnessing is broadly effective here. While I may be defending the truth of God’s Word with a recalcitrant antagonist, it is not he alone who is reading my remarks. He may be there to attack the gospel, but there are dozens of “lurkers” reading our conversation and hearing the Truth being defended and expounded: secondhand witnessing.
There have been times when we have visited a friend in the hospital and prayed over them for a quick recovery. Those walking by the room and seeing this are reminded of a power greater than that of the medical professionals on staff. I know when I see others praying in a hospital, it is a testimony to me of God’s great power.
When we were first married, the neighbor, also a young husband, and I were working on some project and needed to go to the hardware store. We took my car, and when I started the engine, the radio came on and was set to a local Christian radio station. My neighbor sort of mumbled under his breath, “Sheesh, even his radio station is Christian!” I don’t remember ever sharing Christ with him or doing anything overtly Christian for or with him. Somehow he understood our faith – Secondhand Witnessing, I guess. People are watching us.
I’m happy to say the church I attend is a praying church. On a weekly basis I see people praying for one another on the patio in front of the sanctuary: sometimes one-on-one, sometimes in fairly large groups. Others who witness this see we rely not on ourselves but on the God we pursue in prayer.
Why is this important?
Whether it’s a hospital visit that turns out to move a passerby, a witness overheard by someone else, even a bumper sticker, tee shirt, or hat that carries a Christian message, we effect the world around us by our life, our attitude, and how we show Christ in us, these all speak to others secondhand.
I sometimes wonder if when we all are seated at the Marriage Supper of the Lamb, someone or several people will seek us out to tell us something we unknowingly did or said moved them to consider Christ and were saved or encourage in their walk. Perhaps someone will come to us and say “I saw you standing firm during a tough time I could never face. I was inspired. And it was that faith and courage which caused to look again at Who your God is.” – Secondhand Witnessing.
Sometimes when we try to share the gospel with others, we end up in an angry argument. This isn’t the way we should be behaving according to Scripture:
1 Peter 3:15 (ESV) but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect,
I find this instructive. We are not told to run from discussions, in fact seven times in Acts, Paul is seen reasoning with the Jews in the synagogues as well as with the general population in Ephesus at the hall of Tyrannus. The passage says “This continued for two years, so that all the residents of Asia heard the word of the Lord, both Jews and Greeks.” (Acts 19:10)
Acts 17:2 (ESV) says And Paul went in, as was his custom, and on three Sabbath days he reasoned with them from the Scriptures. It was Paul’s custom to seek out places where he could start discussions, but not arguments.
When we begin discussions, we need to be sure we do so with “gentleness and respect” for the others involved. My wife and I occasionally went to the Los Angeles County Fair. One year, a splinter group from the Watchtower called the International Bible Students, had a booth at the fair answering “Bible” questions. Since their beliefs are closely aligned with Jehovah’s Witnesses, I stopped by the booth to discuss some questions I had. I spoke with a man for ten minutes or so before he called over others in the booth. “Listen to this guy.” He said, ”He doesn’t agree, but he isn’t getting angry either.” As a result we had an audience of a few rather than just the each other and I was allowed to share the truth.
I walked away with two important lessons: people will listen if you can keep the discussion on a friendly level, and most Christians this man had met that day had gotten angry with his beliefs. That’s not “gentleness and respect.” The Holy Spirit through Paul has good reasons to tell us to be gentle and respectful.
When people see you respect them enough to hear them out, they will offer the same respect to you. Getting angry and throwing dozens of Bible verses at this fellow at the Fair would have accomplished nothing but to convince him Christians are angry and argumentative.
We need only look at how Paul handled the philosophers in Athens to see how this is masterfully done (Acts 17:22-34). With Paul’s efforts and the work of the Holy Spirit on the hearts of men, some became believers.
Why is this important?
We all get into discussions about our faith whether we mean to or not. We need to understand it is not a sprint but a marathon, a relay race really. We share with someone, maybe someone at work will do the same later, then a family member, and so on. Our job isn’t to save people but to inform them and let the Holy Spirit do His work of salvation. We’re all in it together. Paul talks about this process in First Corinthians:
1 Cor. 3:6-9 (ESV) I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. 7 So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth. 8 He who plants and he who waters are one, and each will receive his wages according to his labor. 9 For we are God’s fellow workers. You are God’s field, God’s building.
When we talk with someone about our Lord, we mustn’t think we’re necessarily going to see them drop to their knees and confess Christ. While that will happen at times, our job is to plant and water. Greg Koukl describes it as putting a pebble in their shoe, give them something to think about that will lay the groundwork for the Holy Spirit to speak to them.
When we give long drawn out presentations, there is so much content, and person hearing the presentation could never remember it. Often the best thing is to offer a point or two. If they ask questions, the rest of the discussion should be to answer those not present new points. We want to drop a pebble in their shoe not fill it with gravel. And remember it’s a discussion, two sided discussion. We need to listen at least as much as we speak – maybe more.
1 Cor. 12:12-20 (ESV) For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. 13 For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit.
14 For the body does not consist of one member but of many. 15 If the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. 16 And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. 17 If the whole body were an eye, where would be the sense of hearing? If the whole body were an ear, where would be the sense of smell? 18 But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. 19 If all were a single member, where would the body be? 20 As it is, there are many parts, yet one body.
Gal. 5:22-23 (ESV) But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
These passages of Scripture speak of the unity of the church, the body of Christ. Together we show each other and the world Christ in a very physical sense. Elsewhere in the passage, Paul gets into instruction about spiritual gifts and how they edify the church itself, but I’d like to talk about how the body of Christ is also displayed before the world. There are traits, fruit, I see in the church which give us and the world a glimpse of the God we serve.
A lot of years ago, we belonged to a Southern Baptist church in California, and there was a share night, a sort of talent show. Some members of the congregation sang songs, one gentleman whistled all four stanzas of Amazing Grace, some recited Scripture from memory, and I had written a pretty poorly constructed poem to express my relationship with God, His church, and me.
I recited the poem at a men’s group this past week, and they thought it was significant enough to ask for written copies. Being me, it occurred to me I could do this by sharing it here to see if it might help some of the readers of this blog better understand Christ and His church, and it would give a written record of the poem for those who asked. Please remember this was written to be given to a group within a church sanctuary setting:
When I was a boy
I asked God to show Himself to me,
Not in a spiritual sense
Something tangible I could see.
He didn’t appear to me that night.
He wouldn’t show Himself.
So, just to show Him who’s the boss,
I put His book back on its shelf.
As the years went by,
His book came down.
Now I know Him as my Lord.
But He never forgot my prayer.
He remembered every word.
As I look around the room,
I see some very dear friends of mine
Who show me through their lives and loves
God’s qualities divine.
In some I see the joy of God:
His patience and His kindness.
While others share His love in Truth
To cure the World’s blindness.
With some, it’s His authority that comes bursting through.
With other, His sense of humor in the funny things they do.
So if you ever prayed a prayer like that
On some dark and lonely night,
Just look around.
He’s wall-to-wall.
Behold the body of Christ.
Why is this important?
Although the gifts of the Holy Spirit are most certainly awesome, wonderful, supernatural, and even necessary for the health of the church, the fruit that display God’s joy, love, and compassion come every day nearly unnoticed through the people who make up His body. This fruit is important for the world to see. People can better discern Christ in us because He lives in us, lives through us, and exhibits His person by us. It is through us they see the body of Christ.
I had the privilege of teaching from John chapter 9 this week and thought I’d share some of the blessings I found. The full chapter appears at the end of this post.
I’m one of those guys who just loves to dig into the “nit picky” portions of Scripture: the ways Greek words are used, the great theological truths, the nuances of doctrine, but John chapter 9 doesn’t give much of that. What it does give is a study in the human condition.
There are really five parties in this passage. First is the man born blind who was given his sight by Jesus making mud and smearing it on my eyes and telling him to wash in the pool of Siloam. Second are the neighbors who argue about who this fellow really is. Third are the Pharisees, the arrogant, cold-hearted Pharisees. Fourthly are the man’s parents. And last, but certainly not least, is Jesus Himself. I think we can learn a lot about how we should and shouldn’t act from each.
I’ll keep the blind man himself for later. Let’s look at the neighbors. Some of them knew this was the man who sat at the temple begging. They had probably been regular or semi-regular givers. Then there were those who weren’t sure: maybe he is maybe he isn’t the man. No doubt these folks were less familiar with him. They most likely had seen him in passing but failed to really notice him.
How often can we do this with people we see every day, with people at the market, in the neighborhood, and even at church. We don’t know if they’re hurting or how we might help, how we might pray for them. We’ve just become so self-involved that others suffer alone with their troubles. Let’s not do that.
Next come the Pharisees. Boy how we can slip in the legalism these boys display so often in Scripture. Here they are much more interested in someone may have broken their rules by working miracles on the Sabbath than the fact God had healed this man. Interestingly the man’s sight wasn’t restored, but was created. The Expositor’s Bible Commentary puts it this way: “Since the blindness was congenital, the healing would be creative rather than remedial.” Yet, the Pharisees didn’t throw a party for this fellow to celebrate his new power of sight, they threw him out of the synagogue instead, excommunicated him because they couldn’t deal with a fact that stood against their central belief: No work could be done on the Sabbath.
I had a friend who refused to join in a community evangelism effort because he had differences with some of the churches. They were charismatic. This is a form of legalism. How about Christians who won’t sit next to a homeless person or a known person of loose morals? Jesus dined with these shorts of folks, He sought them out just as He did with this man who received his sight. Do we think we’re so much better than anyone else? Are our sins “cleaner?” Let’s get off our high horse and reach out to those Jesus reached out to.
Next are the parents. These two are an interesting set. They feared being excommunicated so much they would not say who healed their son or how He did it. “He’s of age. Ask him” was their response passing the buck. Do we love our church or our pastor more than we love our Lord? Are we afraid to question things that might be said from the pulpit that just don’t sound right to us so as not to anger anyone? Let’s get a little backbone. We should know our Bible well enough to spot error.
A pastor where I attended for years denied the Trinity indirectly twice from the pulpit saying Jesus ceased to exist for the three days He was in the tomb. This would mean, at least for three days, God was no longer triune, He had changed in His nature. This goes directly against a central doctrine of the Bible. I spoke with him after the first time and pointed out my problem with what he said. He apologized and said he was wrong. A few weeks later, though, he did it again. I then went to the board of elders with the issue. The problem was dealt with in a loving manner. The point is, we should never be afraid to bring up things we disagree with. Someone will have their theology “sharpened” whether the pastor or the congregant.
Lastly, I’d like to point to the man who was born blind. What an amazing guy. His day started with the usual begging at the temple. Then the most wonderful thing happened: he met Jesus Who gave him sight. Now he could see color, see his family, see the beauty of creation, maybe get a job, a girlfriend, get married and raise a family. This was an awe inspiring event in his life. He wanted to praise God, thank Jesus, tell everyone of the wonderful thing that had happened. Instead he was questioned about how this was done. Then comes my favorite part of the story:
John 9:30-34 (ESV) The man answered, “Why, this is an amazing thing! You do not know where he comes from, and yet he opened my eyes. 31 We know that God does not listen to sinners, but if anyone is a worshiper of God and does his will, God listens to him. 32 Never since the world began has it been heard that anyone opened the eyes of a man born blind. 33 If this man were not from God, he could do nothing.” 34 They answered him, “You were born in utter sin, and would you teach us?” And they cast him out.
The man born blind gives the Pharisees a theology lesson, and they kick him out. He started the day as an outcast but, at least, he was a Jew. Now he’s been excommunicated, a worse outcast. But then there was Jesus, the seeker of outcasts who sought him out and gave him new life. He did this for me nearly 50 years ago, and if you know Him, He’s done this for you as well. Let us live like another who was healed in Jesus’ name “walking and leaping and praising God.” (Acts. 3:8)
Why is this important?
We spend so much of our lives worried about ourselves and not about the people we pass every day. We reject those who disagree with us, we cling to man rather than God. In the noise raised around us against what we know to be true, we can momentarily lose our memory of Him who healed us, the one who gave us sight where there was no sight, the one who loves us so much He has carved our names into the palms of His hands. (Isa. 49:16) His love for us is boundless, and He loves us all. To paraphrase Anthony Campolo, “God has a wallet with everyone’s picture in it.”
John 9 (ESV)
9 As he passed by, he saw a man blind from birth. 2 And his disciples asked him, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?” 3 Jesus answered, “It was not that this man sinned, or his parents, but that the works of God might be displayed in him. 4 We must work the works of him who sent me while it is day; night is coming, when no one can work. 5 As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world.” 6 Having said these things, he spit on the ground and made mud with the saliva. Then he anointed the man’s eyes with the mud 7 and said to him, “Go, wash in the pool of Siloam” (which means Sent). So he went and washed and came back seeing. 8 The neighbors and those who had seen him before as a beggar were saying, “Is this not the man who used to sit and beg?” 9 Some said, “It is he.” Others said, “No, but he is like him.” He kept saying, “I am the man.” 10 So they said to him, “Then how were your eyes opened?” 11 He answered, “The man called Jesus made mud and anointed my eyes and said to me, ‘Go to Siloam and wash.’ So I went and washed and received my sight.” 12 They said to him, “Where is he?” He said, “I do not know.” 13 They brought to the Pharisees the man who had formerly been blind. 14 Now it was a Sabbath day when Jesus made the mud and opened his eyes. 15 So the Pharisees again asked him how he had received his sight. And he said to them, “He put mud on my eyes, and I washed, and I see.” 16 Some of the Pharisees said, “This man is not from God, for he does not keep the Sabbath.” But others said, “How can a man who is a sinner do such signs?” And there was a division among them. 17 So they said again to the blind man, “What do you say about him, since he has opened your eyes?” He said, “He is a prophet.” 18 The Jews did not believe that he had been blind and had received his sight, until they called the parents of the man who had received his sight 19 and asked them, “Is this your son, who you say was born blind? How then does he now see?” 20 His parents answered, “We know that this is our son and that he was born blind. 21 But how he now sees we do not know, nor do we know who opened his eyes. Ask him; he is of age. He will speak for himself.” 22 (His parents said these things because they feared the Jews, for the Jews had already agreed that if anyone should confess Jesus to be Christ, he was to be put out of the synagogue.) 23 Therefore his parents said, “He is of age; ask him.” 24 So for the second time they called the man who had been blind and said to him, “Give glory to God. We know that this man is a sinner.” 25 He answered, “Whether he is a sinner I do not know. One thing I do know, that though I was blind, now I see.” 26 They said to him, “What did he do to you? How did he open your eyes?” 27 He answered them, “I have told you already, and you would not listen. Why do you want to hear it again? Do you also want to become his disciples?” 28 And they reviled him, saying, “You are his disciple, but we are disciples of Moses. 29 We know that God has spoken to Moses, but as for this man, we do not know where he comes from.” 30 The man answered, “Why, this is an amazing thing! You do not know where he comes from, and yet he opened my eyes. 31 We know that God does not listen to sinners, but if anyone is a worshiper of God and does his will, God listens to him. 32 Never since the world began has it been heard that anyone opened the eyes of a man born blind. 33 If this man were not from God, he could do nothing.” 34 They answered him, “You were born in utter sin, and would you teach us?” And they cast him out. 35 Jesus heard that they had cast him out, and having found him he said, “Do you believe in the Son of Man?” 36 He answered, “And who is he, sir, that I may believe in him?” 37 Jesus said to him, “You have seen him, and it is he who is speaking to you.” 38 He said, “Lord, I believe,” and he worshiped him. 39 Jesus said, “For judgment I came into this world, that those who do not see may see, and those who see may become blind.” 40 Some of the Pharisees near him heard these things, and said to him, “Are we also blind?” 41 Jesus said to them, “If you were blind, you would have no guilt; but now that you say, ‘We see,’ your guilt remains.
2 Tim. 3:1-5 (ESV) But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. 2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, 4 treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people.
Of late, I’ve seen people in the news and in my own life claiming to be Christians but exhibiting some or all of the above traits. They often point their fingers at politicians, for instance, but ignore the same traits in themselves. We need to guard against that for a number of reasons.
Firstly, Scripture directly commands us not to be like this:
2 Tim. 2:23-26 (NASB) 23 But refuse foolish and ignorant speculations, knowing that they produce quarrels. 24 And the Lord’s bond-servant must not be quarrelsome, but be kind to all, able to teach, patient when wronged, 25 with gentleness correcting those who are in opposition, if perhaps God may grant them repentance leading to the knowledge of the truth, 26 and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, having been held captive by him to do his will.
Secondly, the devil loves to distract us. As Dr. Walter Martin used to say, “For Satan, the next best thing to a lost soul is a sterile Christian,” and misdirecting me with things other than truth, righteousness, and Christian living makes me that sterile Christian.
Thirdly, our behavior is used by God to show the world how we are different, “contrary to the world” as my pastor likes to say. We should live contrary lives, but when the lost look at us and see only the same things they see in each other, there is no reason to change, no reason to look into why we are different, no reason to turn to Christ.
Do we really want to stand before Christ one day having not shared the truth with others, not shown Christ in our lives? Do we think God will not hold us accountable for this? If we think that, we are misinformed:
Ezek. 33:6 (NIV) But if the watchman sees the sword coming and does not blow the trumpet to warn the people and the sword comes and takes the life of one of them, that man will be taken away because of his sin, but I will hold the watchman accountable for his blood.’
Maybe we’ve told people we’re Christians. Maybe we’ve even invited them to church, but do they see Christ in our lives daily? Have we shown them as well as told them? I don’t know about you, but I learn much better when someone shows me how something works than when they just tell me.
I never took auto class in school. I knew generally how an engine worked, and general maintenance procedures, but it was helping my brother work on his car that showed me how it all came together. Telling without showing is not to fully inform someone.
This theme of giving the full counsel of God is not exclusive to the Old Testament:
Acts. 20:26-27 (NKJV) Therefore I testify to you this day that I am innocent of the blood of all men. 27 For I have not shunned to declare to you the whole counsel of God.
When we tell people we’re Christians, and they see we don’t follow the commands of Christ, we’re lying to them. We are being two-faced telling them one thing but doing something else. Some call that hypocrisy. Jesus speaks against this very type of hypocrisy often:
Matt. 15:7-9 (ESV) You hypocrites! Well did Isaiah prophesy of you, when he said: “ ‘This people honors me with their lips, but their heart is far from me; in vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.’ ”
We’re supposed to be different. We’re supposed to entice the lost by our behavior. If we are only interested in the “fire insurance” of accepting Christ then continuing to live as the world does, have we truly made Jesus Lord of our lives? Or have we just become Christians in name only? Have we broken our Lord’s heart?
This was a little harsh I know, but sometimes harshness is useful. I’m not speaking to the reader alone but to myself as well. Let’s reach out to one another, hold one another accountable to walk on the narrow way. Iron sharpens iron.
1 Tim. 4:12 (ESV) Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.
Believers Armed and Dangerous 